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		<title>The Impact of Beauty</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2020 18:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>How Society Affects our Perception of Ourselves</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com/2020/03/the-impact-of-beauty/">The Impact of Beauty</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com">The McGill Daily</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Having been born and raised in Pakistan, it was ingrained in my mind from a very young age that women could only be desirable if they were petite, fair and feminine — an ideal that many Pakistani men sought after in potential wives, and an ideal that I did not fit into. The women who were regarded as the most beautiful were those who looked the least “ethnic” — this created a form of self-loathing among young girls, perpetuated by the media who cast actresses with the most European looking features. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">This Eurocentric image of beauty predates back to when the British first colonized South Asia, where the colonizers <a href="https://brightthemag.com/fair-but-not-so-lovely-indias-obsession-with-skin-whitening-beauty-body-image-bleaching-4d6ba9c9743d">kept light skinned locals as allies, giving them special treatment over other people of color</a>. They also built upon the caste system and gave the fair skinned upper castes, such as the Brahmins and Kshatriyas, traditionally powerful roles, while lower castes (including the “untouchable” Dalits) performed manual tasks and had darker complexions.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Not only does the impact of the colonists remain years after decolonization, but it is stronger than ever. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bleaching and fairness cream advertisements are widely spread in Pakistan  on billboards and television channels. The typical advertisement revolves around a darker skinned girl staring in a mirror, dejected, until she finds a “magic” whitening cream that makes her lighter within a week, and she finally gets the man of her dreams. In fact, the advertisement showcases her </span><a href="https://www.kajalmag.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/maxresdefault-e1515589491571.jpg"><span style="font-weight: 400;">progression of getting lighter </span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">—</span><a href="https://www.kajalmag.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/maxresdefault-e1515589491571.jpg"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> as well as happier </span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">—</span><a href="https://www.kajalmag.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/maxresdefault-e1515589491571.jpg"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> day by day </span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">until she reaches the “ideal perfect complexion”. The slogan accompanying it states-”fair and lovely.” The mindset of being rejected by society due to being dark skinned is instilled upon young girls from as early as when they first start watching television. It has led to the bleaching market being one of the largest markets in the economy, generating around </span><a href="https://theconversation.com/bleached-girls-india-and-its-love-for-light-skin-80655"><span style="font-weight: 400;">$573 million CAD</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> annually and being endorsed by various celebrities, garnering a mass audience despite it containing toxic chemicals </span><a href="https://www.vice.com/en_in/article/43jj8j/pakistan-is-cracking-down-on-toxic-skin-whitening-creams"><span style="font-weight: 400;">such as mercury</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. My earliest memory revolves around a relative calling my mother’s lighter skin beautiful while looking at me with disdain and asking why I was much darker. My mother told me to brush it off, but it has stuck with me to this day.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Societal expectations for women’s appearances  is a global problem, though the standards vary vastly between different countries. Although I live in Canada now, I have noticed that these issues are still prevalent, particularly due to the ever increasing influence of social media. Due to the growing popularity of online platforms such as Instagram, we are bombarded with pictures of  unrealistic and practically flawless looking women — with </span><a href="https://ctl.s6img.com/society6/img/mFPNRYklMDLNYx1MrI3UHsy1siE/w_700/posters/18x24/front/~artwork,fw_2720,fh_3622,fx_83,fy_5,iw_2550,ih_3606/s6-original-art-uploads/society6/uploads/misc/798f300e7bd84456915c14cc98cb1409/~~/jessica-rabbit1860661-posters.jpg"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jessica Rabbit-esque</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> body proportions and exaggerated facial features.  Constant exposure to this imagery, often leads to negative comparisons of oneself with celebrities and peers, i</span><a href="https://www.thelexingtonline.com/blog/2018/5/7/how-social-media-contributes-to-body-dysmorphic-behaviors"><span style="font-weight: 400;">ncreased self scrutiny, and mental health issues such as body dysmorphia</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and depression. In a few cases, </span><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/jul/19/i-was-insta-famous-and-it-was-one-of-the-worst-things-to-happen-in-my-20s"><span style="font-weight: 400;">influencers themselves cannot live up to the unrealistic expectations they themselves have created,</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and resort to photoshop or plastic surgery due to the pressure to alter their appearance.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though there are colonial ties to this standard, it is still escalating more than ever due to our high consumption of media and following of influencers. Media presents a very similar message to the colonial mentality of looking and acting a certain or “right” way.. The danger lies in the fact that  now it is more subtle and widespread — making it more” acceptable.” The scrutiny and standards women face to look and act a certain way, whether it be the shy slim fair skinned bride in Pakistan or the buxom blonde in Canada, are worldwide, and problematic. They contain elements of discrimation towards social class, sex, race and serve as a capsule of colonial thinking. Instead of being taught self acceptance and embracing our own unique features and heritage, we are constantly being told to alter our appearance and doubt ourselves, with companies profiting off this insecurity. Though deconstructing these long held ideas will take time and consistency, we must not contribute to their spread and should think more deeply about the notions of racism, sexism and colonialism they relate too.</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com/2020/03/the-impact-of-beauty/">The Impact of Beauty</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com">The McGill Daily</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2020 13:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The Phenomenon of the “Serial Killer Heartthrob”</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com/2020/02/stop-romanticising-people-who-perpetuate-violence/">Stop Romanticising People Who Perpetuate Violence</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com">The McGill Daily</a>.</p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">*<em>Spoilers for the Netflix show</em> You<em> ahead</em>*</span></p>
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<p>“Joe Goldberg is so hot.”</p>
<p>Comments like these – usually written by overly-excited, hormone-fueled teenage girls – are not out of the ordinary to see on the internet. However, as I scrolled through my timeline, this comment in particular caught my eye. Not because it was directed towards some new floppy haired popstar with the voice of an angel, but because it was about Joe Goldberg: a serial killer from the new hit Netflix series <em>You</em>. This is problematic.</p>
<p>With Netflix being one of the largest media streaming services in the world, the premiere of You generated over 43 million viewers. That means over 43 million people viewed Hollywood’s glamourized portrayal of a serial killer, romanticized through a “twisted love story,” which in reality is not a love story at all, but instead a selfish one- sided obsession leading to horrific murders. Not to mention he has a literal cage to keep humans captive. However, there is this growing online fandom for Joe, which seems to be able to look past his heinous crimes, focusing on how “dreamy” he is, not realising the true danger of a person like him in a real-life context.</p>
<p>The casting of Penn Badgley – an attractive young actor with a perfectly chiselled jawline – to play Joe is definitely a factor contributing to the phenomenon of our fascination with people who perpetuate violence. When Hollywood casts good looking people to play killers – adding a romantic backdrop to top it off – it often leads to their looks overshadowing the fact that they are dangerous. The average viewer’s main takeaway is how Joe is “misunderstood” and “dedicated” for his love, not that he is delusional, unremorseful, and self-centered. His character is only concerned about what he wants and does not care about the harm he causes along the way. Badgley himself has been puzzled by the response, often reminding fans that his character is nothing to admire, adding that “<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/24/arts/television/penn-badgley-you-netflix.html">it says something about how much we are willing to be patient and forgive someone who inhabits a body that looks something like mine – the colour of my skin, my gender, these sorts of privileges, and how much less willing to forgive people who don’t fit those boxes</a>.”</p>
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<p>This bias we have towards traditionally attractive white men, regardless of the atrocious crimes they have committed, is nothing new and can be observed throughout history. Ted Bundy, a notorious serial killer in the 1970’s who kidnapped, raped, and murdered numerous women, was often described as “handsome,” “funny,” and “charismatic.” He developed a twisted <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-02-01/ted-bundy-why-the-serial-killer-attracted-female-fans/10763676">fan following</a> among young girls, the very type he had targeted in his murders. They would send him love letters in prison and turn up to court hearings just to catch a glimpse of him. He even ended up marrying one of his admirers, Carol Anne Boone, in prison. Over time he has become one of the most infamous serial killers, with various movies and documentaries being made about him to this day, the latest being <em>Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil and Vile</em> starring A-list Hollywood actor Zac Efron. One might wonder why Bundy specifically has been given so much media attention, among the various other serial killers throughout history. Though the reason partly lies in the fact his crimes were horrific, more specifically it can be attributed to the fact that <a href="https://medium.com/@cgcrimesite/how-serial-killer-ted-bundy-refelcts-societys-attractive-person-bias-cdd989f16b2">people could not wrap their head around the idea of how someone who looked like him could commit them</a>. His looks had created a sort of “halo effect,” where the media attention he was receiving was mostly centred around his charm and how he did not fit the mold of what a serial killer should look like.</p>
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<p>The mindset that the media is creating among young people of romanticising people who perpetuate violence instead of portraying them accurately for the destructive force they truly are, is scary. There is nothing to be gained from pretending serial killers belong in a teen romance novel, and that they can be fixed, saved, or changed. We need to start seeing them for who they really are, instead of putting them on a pedestal and undermining the trauma they cause and lives they destroy. So the next time the camera pans to Penn Badgley’s near-flawless face, just remember, serial killers are so <em>not</em> hot.</p>
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<p>The post <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com/2020/02/stop-romanticising-people-who-perpetuate-violence/">Stop Romanticising People Who Perpetuate Violence</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.mcgilldaily.com">The McGill Daily</a>.</p>
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